Monday, May 21, 2012

Get Her Back Even If You Were So Very Wrong

By Eric B. Hastings - You did it. You were wrong. You know that you were wrong and you freely admit it. But no matter how wrong you know you are and how sorry you are about it, your girlfriend still doesn't want to get back together. Things just blew up and before you knew it you were broken up and now it seems like there's nothing that you can do to get her back.

But can you turn things around and show her how sorry you are? Can you get that second chance that you're dying for and show her that you're serious? Talking seems to be getting you nowhere and it's as if she doesn't even care anymore.

You are serious about making things right because you know that you were wrong but what can you do to make her see that your intentions are pure and that you really do love her?

Maybe if you bought her a present that would help. Maybe a peace offering that shows that you do listen to her and know her might show that you really do care about her. Of course, you would tell her that you weren't trying to bribe her. You could say that it was something that you bought before you broke up and you just wanted to give it to her. Would this work and can a really cool present make a positive impression on your girlfriend?

You're probably just wasting your time and money if you think that buying her a present is going to make a difference. Even the coolest gift is just going to appear as a bribe in her eyes right now. She will probably take it but it's not going to send the kind of message that you were probably hoping for. Just save your money and wait until you're back together to take her out to dinner or to buy her something special. Women aren't stupid and she will know what you're trying to do anyhow so just hold off on the gifts.

Maybe you should just sit and wait and let her come back to you? This is the advice that many people give after a breakup. After all, if it's meant to be then it will be, right? Just let her simmer on the back burner and let time do a little healing work on your relationship and her heart. After a while she'll realize how much she loves you and how much she misses you and she'll be back, right? She'll just show up at your doorstep one night and everything will be fine.

Even though it's a great idea to think about how you want things to happen when you finally do get back together, benign neglect isn't really a solution to your problem. Even though giving her some time to calm down and for emotions to subside is a great idea, just sitting around waiting for her to remember how much she loved you rarely works alone. Absolutely do give her the space she needs right now and don't push her while she is in a negative emotional state about you.

Without her feeling something positive towards you emotionally you are doomed. This is why it is important to focus on her emotions right now. It is the way to get her back. Without her feeling positive emotions towards you your relationship is doomed. But by being able to tweak her female emotional core that will cause her to change her perception of you, your relationship is well worth saving. By focusing on female psychology and the emotions that she needs to feel to fall for you again you can and will get her back.

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